Have a real, proper look. Whatever arises for you, embrace it. We can't help but fantasize about you taking us all the way in, uh, ALL the time. Does she get turned on when I lick her faster or slower, and where exactly matters the most to her? Does she get closer when I use my fingers or when I use my fingers and my tongue?
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Speaking of conversations, let's get to the difficult topic of communication during oral sex. But how else will you know if your partner is happy with what is happening? Getting her to open up and hold still might take some gentle manual bondage. Oral sex - any which way - is something we're always up for. Some women report that they get more aroused from giving oral sex, than from any other kind of foreplay activity.